A BIG Thank-you to…

Bereaved Families of Ontario Midwestern region would like to thank…

   

 

for their generous donations that have gone to support our programs.

 

Recognizing our Sponsors:

 

Funeral Homes:

Henry Walser Funeral Home

Ratz Bechtel Funeral Home

Erb and Good Family Funeral Home

Schreiter-Sandrock Funeral Home

Westmount Funeral home

 

Corporate Donations:

Waterloo Region Record

City of Kitchener Cemeteries

Cober Printing

Canadian Tire Waterloo West

 

With supporters like you, we can ensure viability for our much needed programs and services!

Loved Ones Remembered

January 

Cory Bast

January 1, 2007

Remembered by parents Heather & Dale and sister Amanda

Brandon Khindria

January 2, 2003

Remembered by his parents Alysha & Sulekh & his brother Joshua

Crystal White

January 2, 2011

Remembered by mom and Steve

Chad Chenoweth

January 3, 2000

Remembered by his parents Robert & Belinda & siblings Shawn & Kelly

Gisselle Parker

January 3, 2005

Remembered by their mother Ashley

O’dauntious Parker

January 3, 2005

Remembered by their mother Ashley

Joseph Snyder

January 4, 1999

Remembered by his parents Marlene & Steve

Mackenzie Rose

January 4, 2004

Remembered by his parents Elma & Rodney

William Nightingale

January 6, 2001

Remembered by his wife Maria & daughters Angelique & Gwendolyn

Mario Di Bonaventura

January 6, 2005

Remembered by his daughter Theresa & granddaughter Jessica

Chris Olinskie

January 7, 2006

Remembered by his mother Denise & siblings Alex, Lee, Darcy & Darryl

Caroline Suljak

January 8, 2000

Remembered by her parents Melanie & Michael, Megan in Heaven & her triplet Georgia

Lucas Dolson-Southern

January 8, 2003

Remembered by his mother Elfie & brother Travis

Richard Fitzgerald

January 9, 2009

Remembered by his wife Pauline and son Maurice

Liam Scanlon

January 10, 2008

Remembered by his mother Katherine

Isabelle Shaw

January 11, 2000

Remembered by her parents Elaine & Daniel

Aaron Ferguson

January 11, 2003

Remembered by his parents Angela & Allan & sister Alicia

Baby Evans

January 11, 2006

Remembered by parents Cheryl & Rob

Tyrone Leppard

January 11, 2006

Remembered by family and friends

Michelle Petal

January 12, 2009

Remembered by parents Tammy and Gord and by sister Shakira Gibson

Gage Bijl

January 13, 2000

Remembered by his mother Wendy, Keeley Hope, Tristen Thomas, and his brother Holden in heaven

Marcus Butterworth

January 13, 2002

Remembered by his parents Tina and Steve and brothers Joseph, Jacob and Jonathan

Isaac Wight

January 13, 2005

Remembered by his parents Kate & Gene

Norman “Ken” Hunt

January 13, 2010

Remembered by his wife Diane

Doug Bennett

January 14, 1996

Remembered by his wife Joyce

Tyler Little

January 16, 2009

Remembered by his mom

Eric Toye

January 17, 2005

Remembered by Special husband and best friend. Remembered by Marlene

Jenese Zettel

January 18, 1998

Remembered by Paul & Kelly & sisters Chantal & Leah

Shirley Maltais

January 18, 2009

Remembered by Geoff, Debbie, Roger, Kristine, Darien, Angela and Ryan

Adam Keller

January 20, 2002

Remembered by his parents Donna & Peter & sisters Amy & Nina

Henrietta Miller

January 22, 2009

Remembered by Geoff, Debbie, Roger, Kristine, Darien, Angela and Ryan

Cheyenne Wilkinson-Bowman

January 23, 2008

Remembered by parents Natasha and Damien and brothers Darren, Donovan and Devin

Perry Andersen

January 23, 2013

Remembered by family and friends

Alexander Toushan

January 24, 1999

Remembered by his parents Stephanie & Troy & brother Brandon

Martin Lammers

January 24, 2009

Remembered by his sister Helen Helps and family

Damon Seddon

January 25, 2005

Remembered by his mother Tonia & family Jeff, Sue, Nicole & Ryan

Kylene Roberts

January 25, 2012

Miss you sweet Angel, remembered by her parents Matt and Sharon and big brother Hunter

Mike Gidlinger

January 26, 2008

Remembered by Brother Steve, Sister In Law Sarah and nieces Justina and Summer

Abigail Smith-Bernard

January 26, 2012

Remembered by family and friends

 

Paul McGregor Verity

January 27, 2010

Living in our hearts

Sebastien Ducharme

January 29, 2013

Remembered by family and friends

Chloe Lynn Moskalyk

January 30, 2005

Remembered by her parents Loralei & Geoff

February 

Joe Cellupica

February 1, 2005

Remembered by family and friends

Abby Bjorkenstam

February 1, 2006

Remembered by their parents Katie and Evan, brother Hunter and sister Reese

Grace Bjorkenstam

February 1, 2006

Remembered by their parents Katie and Evan, brother Hunter and sister Reese

Logan Snyder

February 1, 2008

Remembered by Mom Meghan and Father John

Simon Buurma

February 1, 2011

Remembered by family and friends

Joseph Stascia

February 2, 2005

Remembered by family and friends

Maria French

February 2, 2008

Remembered by Rita, Michael, husband Brian and son Michael

Axel Greenway

February 5, 2011

Remembered by family and friends

Michelle Quick

February 6, 2005

Remembered by her parents Andy & Carol. With her brother Nathaniel in heaven

Mike Nagy

February 6, 2010

Remembered by wife Jennifer and children Michael and Emma

 

James “Jimmy” Milliner

February 8, 1999

Remembered by his parents Mike & Kim (nee Hammar) & siblings Jordan (in heaven), Rachel & Heather Nicole.  Also remembered by grandparents James (in heaven) and Shirley Hammar, and Bonnie and Russell Milliner

Jim Hurlburt

February 9, 2006

Remembered by his wife Dee and son Cody

Barry Spiegel

February 9, 2009

Remembered his parents Bea and Jules and his siblings Stacey, Randy and Heidi

Timothy Zeller

February 10, 1987

Remembered by his mother Joan & his siblings Andrew & Donna, Sarah Lynn & Kevin in heaven

 

Pam Lonsdale

    February 10, 2010

Remembered by husband Steve

Cory Wibberley

February 12, 2001

Remembered by his parents Chris & Louise & brothers Tom & Andy

Michael Baskett

February 13, 2010

Remembered by family, friends and a community that will keep his memory alive, true story

Anthony Ratthe

February 15, 2001

Remembered by his parents Caroline & Mario & siblings Alex, Roxanne, Matthew & Alyssa

Owen Christensen

February 18, 1997

Remembered by his parents Mark & Linda & brothers Evan & Andrew

Alex O’Doherty

February 18, 2001

Remembered by family and friends

Peter Sutton

February 18, 2003

Remembered by Mom, Dad & big sister Mya

Rembrandt Blokland

February 18, 2012

Remembered by Mother Bose, Father Edward, and siblings Cornelus and Catalijne

 

Pamela Spence

February 19, 2009

Remembered by family and friends

Glen Bach

February 21, 1997

Remembered by his parents William & Myrna & siblings Gail & Bonnie

Shalom Webber

February 22, 2002

Remembered by his parents Donalea & Scott & siblings Noah & Annie

Adam Kula

February 22, 2004

Remembered by his parents Suzanne and Robert and brother Evan

Gabriella Campbell

February 23, 2007

Remembered by her parents Maggie & Dean & brothers Justin & Zachary & Curtis

Duncan Gillis

February 25, 2005

Remembered by family and friends

Owen Schell

February 25, 2006

Remembered by his parents Nicole & Fred

Zachary Dyszuk

February 26, 1988

Remembered by his parents Barbara & Paul

Jeremy Dam

February 27, 2005

Remembered by his parents John & Cindy, step-parents Theresa & Ed & sisters Alicia & Jessica

March 

Shae-Lynn Pardy

March 4, 2003

Remembered by her parents Denise & Drew

Navian Gray

March 5, 2005

Remembered by family and friends

Earl Keller

March 6, 1999

Remembered by his wife Pat

Rowan Fox

March 6, 2009

Remembered by his parents Steve and Michelle

Daniel Pietryk

March 7, 2008

Remembered by his parents and older brother David

Jeffrey Scarfone

March 8, 1998

Remembered by his parents Lori & John & brothers Eric & Ryan

Neil MacDonald

March 8, 2011

Remembered by family and friends

Andrew Wagner

March 10, 2000

Remembered by his mother Diane & siblings Christine & Stephanie

Allan Heslop

March 10, 2002

Remembered by his wife Doreen & children Craig & Fiona & son-in-law Scott

Sarah Paulley

March 11, 2008

Remembered by husband Jason and children Lucy and Grace

Ashley Schieck

March 12, 1994

Remembered by her parents Bob & Peg & siblings Jacob & Jacinda

James Langton

March 12, 2009

Remembered by his wife Laurie and son Caleb

Dustin Geil

March 13, 2006

Remembered by his mother Donna & sister Courtney

  

Coltyn Kalybaba

March 13, 2008

Remembered by parents Yvonne and Larry and brother Bohden

Albert Marcella

March 13, 2008

Remembered by wife Carol

Jeffrey Gosse

March 13, 2009

Remembered by parents Helen and Jesse, Sisters Michele and Robin and his 5 children

Lee MacNeill

March 13, 2011

Deeply missed by Bill, Brad and family

Katie Quinlan

March 14, 1997

Remembered by her mother Sharon-Adele

Chloe Langer

March 15, 2003

Remembered by family and friends

Kendra Rafuse

March 16, 2003

Remembered by family and friends

Grace deBoer

March 16, 2007

Remembered by her parents Kim & Steve

Kendra Townsend

March 17, 1980

Remembered by her mother Elaine, Twin sister Krista & brother Jamie

Dillon Pilkie-Rogers

March 18, 2002

Remembered by his parents Annette & Troy & brother Timothy

Friday Savory

March 18, 2003

Remembered by family and friends

Victoria Suljak

March 19, 2001

Remembered by her parents Ninetta & John & siblings Julia & Adam

Alexandra Dixon

March 19, 2003

Remembered by her parents Jane & Mike & sissy Nikola

Christopher Kurt

March 20, 2001

Remembered by his parents Barbara & Victor & son Josua Christopher Kurt.

 

Ryan Hirn-Crane

March 20, 2007

Remembered by his parents Elizabeth & Jamie and sister Madeline

Angella Denis

March 20, 2008

Remembered by her mother Princess, her sisters, her daughter Cassandra and her four sons

Tiffany Mahoney-Holtzhauer

March 21, 2004

Remembered by her father Ross, sister Nicole & grandmother Joyce

Joshua Weinstein

March 21, 2006

Remembered by family and friends

Franz Clausing

March 23, 1994

Remembered by his wife Theresia & his children Frank Karen and Darlene, daughter-in-law Lori & their children. Franz is with his son Erich in heaven

Eric Martinovec

March 24, 2003

Remembered by family and friends

Bianca Frigault

March 25, 2004

Remembered by her parents Denis & Cindy & siblings Samuel & Alyssa, with her brothers Autumn & Lucas in Heaven

Oliver Desmond

March 26, 2008

Remembered by parents Shannon and Phil and brother Maxwell

David Lumgair

March 28, 2001

Remembered by his mother Janice Honeycombe

Tina Emsle

March 28, 2008

Remembered by her mother Pat

Jacob Vaughan

March 30, 2005

Remembered by his parents Bryan & Julie

Annual Campaign

Last year, our fundraising efforts supported the initiation of the Living with Loss group as a Bereaved Families program. We are happy to report that since BFO has started to facilitate this wonderfully received group, we have been able to support 339 families.

We are reaching out to ensure that this vital program continues to help families who need it the most. Please watch the video below to become more familiar with the Living with Loss group.

 

Living With Loss: Finding Hope
Living With Loss: Finding Hope

  

DONATION IMPACT

  • $500 provides support for up to 20 bereaved families, (1 group)
  • $150 provides training for 1 volunteer facilitator that can provide support for up to 20 families biweekly
  • Volunteering 7 hours of time, (2 groups), helps up to 40 families in their journey of grief.

 

If you or your family member has benefited from what BFO-MR has to offer – please consider donating to help us help others.

 

If you would like to donate towards our Living with Loss program, please click here.

 

15th Annual Curling Bonspiel

The curling bonspiel was held on Saturday, February 8th at the KW Granite Club. This year we had 96 participants, over 25 volunteers and countless supporters! BFO would like to thank all the sponsors and participants who donated to this event. Donations included our silent auction, prize and raffle table and baked goods. Because of you, we were able to raise over $8,000 for services and programs BFO runs throughout the year. 

A BIG congratulations to Pam Krokoszynski’s team for winning first place and to all of our raffle winners! To see pictures from the event click here or go to our website at www.bfomidweset.org.

 

See you next year! 

Spring Support Groups

Spring groups are scheduled to start in March! Contact the office or go to our website at www.bfomidwest.org to register for the upcoming spring closed support groups.

 

Parents Grieving the Death of a Baby

This is a closed support group for parents who have experienced the death of a child during pregnancy, as an infant, or up to and including the age of two years.

 

Parents Grieving the Death of a Child

This is a closed support group for parents who have experienced the death of a child from ages three to adult.

 

Widow/Widower with Dependent Children

This is a closed support group for widows or widowers raising young children at home.

 

Grandparents Grieving the Death of a Grandchild

This is a closed support group for grandparents who have experienced the death of a grandchild at any age.

 

Subsequent Pregnancy 

This is an open support group for mothers who are pregnant following the death of an infant or child. Please note that this group meets in person, by telephone and by email and that this is an ongoing group that only runs when there are enough people to sustain a group.

 

Please note that all groups are offered free of charge. Donations are welcome.  A minimum registration is required in order to run the scheduled groups. For more information, or to register, please contact the office at 519-603-0196 or support@bfomidwest.org.

 

LIVING WITH LOSS

Living with Loss is an open peer support group for adults who have experienced the death of a loved one. It runs the first and third Tuesday of each month from 7pm-9pm at the Ratz Bechtel Family Centre. For more information, or to register please contact the office at 519-603-0196 or support@bfomidwest.org. Please note that registration is suggested but not required to attend.

David Unflinching

By: Suzy Richardson

I can remember it like it was yesterday…. chasing my daughter down the cobblestone streets of Florence. I was there as a chaperone for her high school trip to Italy, France and Spain. She had studied the Statue of David in her art class, and although the tour bus was going to be departing shortly, she figured out the address for the Accademia Gallery and was determined that she was going to see it before we left. I had no idea where I was going (my map was in Italian) but somehow I managed to keep up to her and a few of her friends who had gotten off to a running head start. I figured if I didn’t stay on their heels I would become hopelessly lost but luckily I was able to catch a glimpse of her long brown hair flying as she rounded each corner…. and then before I knew it, we were all standing, out of breath, but mesmerized by “David”. We were only there for about 15 minutes, but it felt like time stood still. I could not take my eyes off of him because it looked like this exquisite, marble statue was actually breathing and I had this overwhelming sense that I was experiencing something very profound…something bigger than I knew. I am grateful for that stolen moment and my mind can go back to it easily, and it often does. The look of steely determination in David’s eye changed something in me that day and that memory is now a touchstone for me. None of us get an exemption from the hard things in life…the loss of a job or a loved one, divorce, addictions, illness or accidents; these are things we often have no control over. But we do have control over how we face them and sometimes that can make all the difference in the world. It’s safe to say that we are not going to win every battle that comes our way but – win or lose – I believe we are given a measure of courage and strength for the next time we have to pick up our sling and stones. You have to fight a few lions and bears before you can take on Goliath. David looked me square in the eye and taught me that.

Source: https://definingmoments.cbc.ca/mediadetail/18391529-David%20Unflinching?offset=7